Laura Stearns and Kim Kivens in “12 Questions for a Jewish Mother.”
Laura Stearns and Kim Kivens in “25 Questions for a Jewish Mother.” Credit: Photo by Sarah Whiting

Many of us can remember the last live event we attended before the coming of COVID-19 and the closing of bars, restaurants and “other places of public accommodation.” Now some of us are collecting memories of our first live events after five months of lockdown and social distancing.

Have you been to Mia or the Walker? Crooners, the Chanhassen or Icehouse? A concert in someone’s yard? A movie screening in a city park?

On Saturday, we saw an actual play, live and in person, in a Highland Park backyard. The patio served as the stage. Off to one side, behind a small table with a laptop, sat stage manager Samson Perry. The audience brought their own chairs and spread out across the lawn. The play, “25 Questions for a Jewish Mother,” was performed without an intermission by a cast of two, Kim Kivens and Laura Stearns.

This was the first play of the Minnesota Jewish Theatre Company’s 26th season, “Theater Six Feet Apart.” Its 25th was cut short by COVID. The next two productions, “Operation: Immigration” and “Musical Review,” will be virtual. The season finale, “The People’s Violin,” is being planned for the theater at the Highland Park Community Center, MJTC’s usual venue, but who knows?

An off-Broadway hit by Kate Moira Ryan and Judy Gold, based on the book they wrote together, “25 Questions” is a good choice for a pandemic that has brought the arts to its knees. Kivens and Stearns are both experienced MJTC performers. The production staff is also small: Perry, director Jennie Ward and sound designer Reid Rejsa. There are no lights, costumes or sets, just two mics and a pair of chairs.

Gold, a stand-up comic, won two Emmys for her work as writer/producer for “The Rosie O’Donnell Show” in the late 1990s. She knows how to balance the fiercely funny with the dead serious, the light with the dark, which are sometimes the same thing; is there really a pop-up version of “The Diary of Anne Frank”? (“Pull the tab. Alive. Pull it again. Dead.”) Combining anecdotes from Gold’s life as “a 6’3″ kosher comedian lesbian mother of two from the Upper West Side” with responses from 50 Jewish mothers Gold and Ryan interviewed, the play looks into what makes Jewish mothers different from non-Jewish mothers.

If you’re Jewish, “25 Questions” may be more familiar than revealing. If you’re not, it may answer some of your own questions, shatter stereotypes and teach you a few things about Jewish life and culture.

The audience at “12 Questions for a Jewish Mother.”
[image_credit]MinnPost photo by John Whiting[/image_credit][image_caption]The audience at “25 Questions for a Jewish Mother.”[/image_caption]
Kivens and Stearns are comfortable with the play and each other. Kivens plays Gold and poses the questions: Do you treat your sons differently from your daughters? Do you find Judaism limiting or empowering? Have you ever experienced anti-semitism? Are you kosher? What’s your favorite Jewish mother joke? (“How many Jewish mothers does it take to screw in a light bulb?” “None. I’ll sit in the dark.”)

Stearns plays all the moms. There are 18 (not 50 or even 25; for more, you’ll have to read the book), and they represent a wider variety than you might expect, especially if you’re not Jewish. They are practicing and non-practicing, Orthodox, Conservative, Modern Orthodox, Reform, homemakers, professionals. Some are grandmothers. One is a Holocaust survivor. One is the second daughter of Chinese immigrants who converted to Judaism because she met a man who wanted to marry someone Jewish. Her own mother never forgave her for it.

“25 Questions” isn’t Shakespeare or Ibsen or Tennessee Williams. It is “a comedy that has some substance to it, which are the types of comedies I like,” MJTC’s founder and producing artistic director Barbars Brooks said last week in an interview. More than that, given the conditions and restrictions we’re living under, it’s a chance to be lifted up and carried away, to hear someone else’s stories and, for 70 minutes, take a break from our own.

And there’s the bonus of unpredictability. When you put on a play outdoors, things can happen. At opening night of “25 Questions,” a friendly dog wandered into the yard, eluded Perry and checked out a few audience members before running off. A honking vee of geese flew overhead. A rabbit hopped through. Wild turkeys made an appearance and must have decided we weren’t worth bossing around. Kivens and Stearns rolled with it all.

Seven performances remain, outdoors at public venues and private backyards. FMI and tickets ($35; purchase in advance). Social distancing is enforced and masks are mandatory.

The picks

V is for virtual, L is for live and in person.

Rico Gatson, “Harriet" (2018), photo lithography and photo polymer gravure
[image_credit]Courtesy of Burnett Fine Art & Advisory[/image_credit][image_caption]Rico Gatson, “Harriet" (2018), photo lithography and photo polymer gravure[/image_caption]
L Now at Burnet Fine Art & Advisory in Wayzata: “Fresh: A Summer Selection.” A show of works by many artists,  including Anish Kapoor, Willie Cole, Teo Nguyen, R.J. Kern, Tori Gagne and others. Hours are 11 a.m.-5 p.m. Tuesdays-Saturdays and by appointment; (952) 473-8333. Through Aug. 29. Maintain social distancing. Wear a mask.

V Today (Thursday, Aug. 20) at 3 p.m. on Facebook Live and YouTube: “A Conversation about Confederate Monuments and Memory.” Hosted by the Minnesota Historical Society, this is the second in a series of conversations about monuments and memorials in public spaces. Macalester’s Dr. Katrina Phillips (Red Cliff Ojibwe) will moderate a panel that includes Dr. Melanie Adams, Director of the Smithsonian Anacostia Community Museum, and Dr. Yohuru Williams of the University of St Thomas. FMI.

V and L Tonight (Thursday, Aug. 20) at 7:30 p.m.: Jazz Fest Live presents Trad N’ True. Dave Graf’s new six-piece band will make its debut at Crooners, with Graf on trombone, Doug Haining on clarinet and sax, Adam Rossmiller on trumpet, Steve Blons on guitar and banjo, Steve Pikal on bass and Phil Hey on drums. All big names on the Twin Cities jazz scene, swinging stalwarts and pros. Sign up here to save your spot for the livestream. If you’d prefer to see the band in person, tickets are still available ($10). “Doors” at 5 p.m.

V Starts Friday (Aug. 21) at MSP Film Society’s Virtual Cinema: “Coup 53.” One critic called this documentary “worthy of John Le Carré.” Using archival material buried for decades, it tells the story of the MI6 and CIA-led plot against Iran’s first democratically elected leader, prime minister Mohammed Mossadegh, that overthrew him and installed the Shah. Directed by Taghi Amirani, who worked with Ralph Fiennes (“The Grand Budapest Hotel,” “The English Patient”) to bring the lost material to life. FMI, trailer and tickets ($12).

“Coup 53”
[image_credit]Courtesy MSP Film Society[/image_credit][image_caption]“Coup 53”[/image_caption]
L Monday (Aug. 24) at Icehouse at 7 p.m.: Cedar Thoms. Saxophonist Chris Thomson made his debut last August as Cedar Thoms, electroacoustic artist, with the release of an exciting and ethereal new album, “Celestial Being.” A year and a day later, he’ll return to play the first set in Icehouse’s courtyard. The second set will feature Bryan Nichols, Cody McKinney and Lars-Erik Larson. 7 p.m. $12 cover. FMI and tickets (buy online in advance). Seating is socially distanced. Wear a mask.

V Starts Tuesday (Aug. 25) at 5:30 p.m. CST online: Danish String Quartet Plays Haydn and Beethoven. COVID-19 has twice prevented Schubert Club ticketholders from hearing this stellar ensemble perform Beethoven’s complete string quartets. Here’s hoping they’ll be here in 2021 for that once-in-a-lifetime experience. Meanwhile, you can enjoy a concert they played at the 92nd Street Y in New York in Nov. 2018 that includes the first of Beethoven’s “Razumovsky” quartets. Free and on demand. FMI.

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